How To Throw An Adoption Baby Shower

If you know anything about adoption, you probably know it is a long and tedious process, and certainly something to celebrate after it is finally complete! Adoptive parents are just as qualified to have a baby shower than any biological parents. The main difference between a traditional baby shower and an adoption shower is the time of the shower: an adoption shower is typically held after the new child has arrived. So in a sense, it's almost a welcoming party for the new child, as well as a celebration for the family. But deciding on whether to have the shower before or after the arrival of the child is a personal choice of the parents. They may want to allow the child to settle in first and will have the party later on, or perhaps they'll hold it beforehand so they'll have all the time in the world to get comfortable once the child has arrived.

The theme and overall style of the shower will vary with the child's age. Of course, if you are adopting an infant or a baby, it's a lot easier for them to become adjusted to a new surrounding and family versus an older child of about 4 or 5 years old. If the child is older, the party will be more kid-friendly, with a lot of games, colorful decorations and fun food. You'll want to make sure the party is more than welcoming for an older child so they don't feel stranger or left out. You should also consider including the child in the planning of the party completely - after all, it is in their honor! But if the shower is for a baby, you can certainly choose themes similar to an ordinary shower...just make sure you avoid the "pregnancy" theme and look.

You definitely want the invitations to imply that it is an adoption shower. You don't have to come right out and state that on the invitation; there are many other sweet ways you can announce it. With a little research and creativity, you're bound to find a poem or quote that does the trick. You'll want to inform all of your guests the age of the child, so they can buy gifts accordingly. If the party isn't so intimate, you may want to specify the age on the invitation.

You can host an adoption shower just as you would any other shower, party or event. It all depends on what will work for you, your new child and family. It is certainly a celebratory event, and the new parents should be congratulated just as much as they would with a biological child. Remember, you want everyone - especially the new child, to feel comfortable, welcome and loved. And don't forget the favors - we have a large selection of baby shower favors and child-themed favors that would be perfect for your adoption shower.

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